We are in mourning: President Trump mixes sympathy and politics as consoler-in-chief

WASHINGTON – It was the type of moment when Americans traditionally look to a leader for comfort: grieving the loss of 67 people killed when a commercial airliner and a military helicopter collided over the skies of Washington.

And when Donald Trump stepped behind the White House briefing room podium on Thursday to fulfill his role as consoler-in-chief, he started his remarks by asking for a moment of silence in honor of the victims and their families.

But soon after the silent reflection had ended, Trump went on the attack, blaming the tragedy on his two Democratic predecessors and their emphasis on diversity in hiring, which he claimed had lowered standards for air traffic controllers.

Trump did not provide evidence to back up his statements. When a reporter pressed him on how he could point to diversity, equity and inclusion hiring practices as the reason for the crash, he shot back: “Because I have common sense.”

President Donald Trump arrives in the White House briefing room on Jan. 30, 2025, to speak about the mid-air crash between American Airlines flight 5342 and a military helicopter in Washington.

Binding the nation’s wounds in times of tragedy

Americans have often turned to their leaders in times of tragedy, hoping they can help bind the nation’s wounds and somehow make sense out of events that are often senseless.

Ronald Reagan lauded the heroism of the doomed astronauts aboard the Space Shuttle Challenger, who were killed when the aircraft exploded shortly after takeoff in 1986. “We will never forget them,” he said during a televised address from the Oval Office, recalling how they prepared for their journey and “slipped the surly bonds of earth to touch the face of God.”

After the terrorist attacks on Sept. 11, 2001, George W. Bush, just eight months into his presidency, stood atop the still-smoldering rubble of the World Trade Center, bullhorn in hand, and promised rescue workers sorting through the debris: “I can hear you! The rest of the world hears you! And the people who knocked these buildings down will hear all of us soon.”

Trump, though, has at times offered a different approach to his role of comforter to a grief-stricken nation. During his first term, and at other times before he entered politics, Trump has used moments of national mourning to stress a political point, or to address his critics.

When 11 people were shot to death at a synagogue in Pittsburgh in 2018, Trump, by then well into his first term, appeared to suggest that fewer would have died if they’d had weapons or if an armed guard had been on hand. “If they had some kind of a protection inside the temple, maybe it could have been a very much different situation,” he said.

A year later, Trump marked the 18th anniversary of the 9/11 terrorist attacks with somber expressions and political attacks. He started the morning by going on Twitter and posting a photo of himself and first lady Melania Trump appearing to reflect on the anniversary.  “We Will Never Forget,” the caption read.

Then last week, just three days into his second term, Trump took aim at California as devastating wildfires ravaged the state. Trump threatened to withhold wildfire relief unless California reroutes water to the southern part of the state.

“I don’t think we should give California anything until they let water flow down into there,” he said.

Sympathy and politics

On Wednesday night, just two hours after American Airlines Flight 5342 and an Army Black Hawk helicopter collided mid-air near Reagan Washington National Airport and plunged into the frigid Potomac River, Trump already appeared to be looking to cast blame.

He went even further Thursday morning during remarks at the White House, suggesting that Obama and former President Joe Biden were at fault because they had pushed for diversity in hiring when they were in office. He had especially harsh words for Pete Buttigieg, who as Biden’s transportation secretary was in charge of the Federal Aviation Administration.

“That guy’s a real winner,” Trump said sarcastically. “Do you know how badly everything has run since he has run the Department of Transportation? He’s a disaster. He was a disaster as a mayor – he ran his city into the ground – and he’s a disaster now.”

Buttigieg, the former mayor of South Bend, Indiana, quickly returned the fire.

Others also pushed back.

“It’s one thing for internet pundits to spew up conspiracy theories,” Senate Democratic leader Chuck Schumer wrote on X. “It’s another for the President of the United States of America to throw out idle speculation even as victims are still being recovered, and families are still being notified. It turns your stomach.”

Derrick Johnson, president of the NAACP, slammed Trump for “unpresidential, divisive behavior,” and said he was using “the highest office in the land to sow hatred rooted in falsehoods.”

Glimpses of empathy

Amid Trump’s attacks and conjecture about what went wrong, there were moments during his 35-minute morning briefing when the president showed the empathy Americans have come to expect from their leaders in times of crisis.

“We are in mourning,” he said of the aircraft collision, adding, “this has really shaken a lot of people.”

Trump commended the first responders for “a phenomenal job” and mourned the loss of Russian figure skaters who were among the foreign nationals on the flight.

“Our hearts are shattered alongside yours,” he said.

Hours later, though, Trump was back in attack mode.

In the Oval Office, when asked whether he thought race or gender played a role in the mid-air collision, Trump responded: “It may have. I don’t know. Incompetence might have played a role.”